Thanks to Queen B and countless other celebs in the news lately couples breaking up over cheating has been a hot topic for discussion. So comes the age old question that has a different answer depending on who you ask of course is it necessary to come clean when you've cheated. And if you do come clean and ask forgiveness, should you be forgiven???
Well that depends on alot of factors of course. One being the relationship in question, is it worth the trouble. Are there kids involved? Better yet will he/she do it again and lastly will they tell you the WHOLE truth or just enough to keep them covered in case you get wind of it later on down the road. Cheating happens so often these days and most of the time it happens between people in the workplace. Mainly because they are around each other so much and they feel like they CONNECT differntly and on a better wave length. Alot of times it happens when people at home are unhappy and looking for attention in the wrong places. It makes you wonder how someone couldn't be happy with someone like Beyonce. But in reality you never know what is going on in their mind. Sometimes they do it because they just want the extra attention and when they get the extra attention they don't know how to keep it at arms length. Whatever they're reasons are just know, cheaters are typically never going to tell the truth about their part. And if the opportunity comes up again, no matter what hell they went through convincing you that it would never happen again, it will happen again. And you should know the truth, the whole truth, not just the bits and pieces that make it sound like it happened once when it went on for 5 years. And don't fall into the trap of hating the other person involved, because last time I checked having sex with someone usually takes two people. No matter what you decide, just remember what your mom always said "a zebra can't change its stripes". So if your given a bunch of sour lemons, and your trying desperatly to make lemonade with them but it just is too sour to drink or too many seeds you just can't seem to make it go down. Don't drink it!!!
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